Welcome to the Hope Ministry We to Me Spouse Loss Support Group. 

We are so sorry for the circumstances that bring you here, but we are thankful you are considering being a part of this community of support and encouragement. Losing a spouse is indescribably painful and oftentimes terribly lonely. 

There is something precious about being with others who know and understand what you are experiencing.  We would love the opportunity to listen to you and to walk with you in the days ahead. 

Our desire is to always point grieving people to the Hope we have found. The Hope freely available in Jesus Christ. With Hope it is possible for us to live well in the absence of our spouses. 


Judy Kay lost her husband Tim unexpectedly in February of 2019, due to complications from surgery.  Judy and Tim were happily married for 34 years. 

Judy has two daughters who are married to two wonderful godly men. She also has six grandkids who keep her busy, she adores them so much! She feels blessed to have an amazing family. 

Judy's hobby is quilting, so when she doesn’t have her grands keeping her busy, you will find her at her sewing machine.

Judy looks forward to encouraging you and sharing with you all that God has faithfully done in her life since Tim’s passing.